Tsk tsk tsk tsk.. Relationships..

To those who are close to me, you guys would know that yes I'm in a relationship now~ ohoho.. With who? Find yourself! xp I shall try to refrain myself from posting lovey-dovey stuff to prevent puking, disgust and geliness from other readers~ lols.. Note the word: TRY.. But I've been successful so far right~~ AHAHA.. But I shall not be so tight on venting my frustrations and misery!! "Misery"~


Being in a relationship is harder then I thought.. Yes it has its fun part but its definitely harder than being single.. Harder than being single-but-having-a-crush-but-you're-too-shy-to-tell-them too! Harder than waiting even! Especially when you start to have certain expectations over him/her already. Which is normal, when you're a couple definitely will have expectations.. No wonder some people feel that even though they've just dated for a few months its considered loooong to them. Days feel like years..? haha.. That's a bit kua cheong.. But I guess I kinda understand that now.. Especially when work starts and busy-ness comes in.. Its hard to find a nice equal balance of busy-ness for couples.. Its always one that's busier than the other. So what does the free-er one do..? Think think think think think all the nonsense~ xp


Worst part is when comparisme comes in.. haha.. Very bad.. Must stay away from it.. I think I'm having some attention deficiency sickness... :( haha.. I've read that 3-5months is the most frequent break up rate.. =s But not to worry I'm not thinking along that line.. Yet.. Just kidding~ xp Despite it being hard for me.. Maybe its just me.. Coz yea I crave attention.. I guess we all do too at some point and what more from a loved one? I still believe that its not easy to have 2 people who love each other to be together.. So its something worth holding on or fighting for.. No matter how miserable you feel at that moment.. And I mean really officially together.. Not the "waiting" type.. That to me is single ok.. There's nothing to be "complicated" about~ hehe..


And there's nobody to blame.. There's nothing to blame.. Some things are just inevitable and we all have responsibilities to fulfill.. You wouldn't like it much if your loved one was being irresponsible just to make you happy right..? Wouldn't want to be in love with an irresponsible person now would we? Well, hopefully not.. o.o hehe.. So to all of the couples out there.. Remember to cherish each other! Even after every fight or tak-syokness you have towards each other.. Especially when you have the chance to see each other everyday or week or month.. Envies!!! XP And to all the singles or couples-to-be out there.. THINK CAREFULLY before you make your decision!!! haha.. Not so much on whether he/she's a good match for you but whether you can take what's coming up for you! xp That's why its important to wait~ Work and study.. 2 totally different things.. Make sure you weigh it out before proceeding to the next step..


Hmm.. Maybe I should have waited longer some more.. Until I start working! Then I'll have better adjustment of time.. haihh yahh.. XP Ahh~ I feel better after blogging.. I should do this more often.. To force my you guys to FEEL with me.. AGAGAGAGA..


Ok ok.. Take care now.. I'll be back.. When I'm free to "frust" again! xp Sounds wrong.. hehehehe..


Oh and don't forget..
There is one more love..
That's available for all, that never fails..



So don't fret, all is not lost.. :)